Sharing So Much More Than Space

Many people are lucky enough to have a room that belongs exclusively to them while living at home. Some who have siblings or limited space to live in might be used to sharing a room and space with someone who may not share their taste. When moving into a college dorm, however, that typically changes. You get at least one roommate who may or may not share your taste. Acceptance and sharing is key to surviving at least a semester if not years of rooming together.

Do not be afraid to talk it out. Combining tastes can give you great insight to the likes and dislikes of your roommates. Determine how each of you feels in terms of cleanliness, organization and create a plan for that, especially if you have to share a kitchen or a bathroom and laundry area. One person should not have to do all the work in keeping your living space neat and presentable. If there is not some kind of system in place that splits your housecleaning workload, the job usually falls on the more dedicated of the roommates. Unfortunately this can cause friction and arguments between roomies, which can easily be avoided. Work together to create and clean your living space.

In terms of decorating, be accepting of each other and respect that you will have different tastes. For some roommates this may mean having different music and movie posters on the wall or something as fundamental as religious statues or obscene or lewd pictures. Always be sure to communicate openly about something you find offensive. Accept as much as you give in this category. For at least a semester you are stuck with each other. Make the most of it and use the time to learn about each other and maybe you will gain an appreciation for something you never thought you would.

When deciding what kind of furniture, lamps curtains or dishes to have, involve each other in the process. Try to not just bring home a recliner from the thrift store. Go shopping together and involve everyone in the project so everyone's tastes are considered. Create an idea of how you want your place to look, whether it is contemporary, retro, laid back or thrown together. Once you have a concept, work together and make it happen!

Make the most of your time and space together. Be respectful of each other and hopefully your roommate will share some of your likes, dislikes and taste so that you can spend more time getting to know each other as people and helping each other adjust to college life.

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